Question of the Week-May 28

Mon, May 28 2012 09:03am EDT 1
Denise
Denise
13282 Posts
Let's face it..sometimes life gives us way more than we can handle..right?

Other than scrapbooking, what do you do to relax when it gets to be too much? Pray? Yoga? Read? Hot bath?

I like to pray and I used to do yoga every day...not so much anymore as I can't find the time.
Mon, May 28 2012 11:17am EDT 2
Alda  Stevens
Alda Stevens
20763 Posts
Life more then we can handle ... really .... lol ...

I do not know if I pray as much as I would say I meditate and talk to God ....I am not reciting the Hail Mary or the Our Father, or readingthe scriptures .... even though I finish with a prayer.... its more of a light a candle, close my eyes and say God we need to chat .... Lighting a candle is a mere way for me to stay focus and clear my mind ....

I would not survive my weeks, especially at Pillar if I did not take kickboxing 2x a week ... the fustration release is incredible ....

and when all else fails ... I drive. Music is blarring and I drive ... maybe twords the ocean or an empty highway ... but the confinement of the car makes me think that no other problems of life can hit me ...
Mon, May 28 2012 09:01pm EDT 3
DramaMama
DramaMama
1198 Posts
Definately pray-when it seems I can't bear things on my own I remember that I can't-that we need the strength from God-this world can be waaay to hard to go it alone
Then I retreat and hunker down with DH r watch a movie with the DD
oh, and shopping!!Laughing
Tue, May 29 2012 05:51am EDT 4
SusieJ
SusieJ
708 Posts
Read, hot baths, music, walk the dog...or a damned good cry (sadly I seem to be doing a lot of this last one at the moment).
Tue, May 29 2012 06:33pm EDT 5
Alda  Stevens
Alda Stevens
20763 Posts
ahh Suzie no more tears honey ..... smile :)


Tue, May 29 2012 07:45pm EDT 6
Denise
Denise
13282 Posts
Read, hot baths, music, walk the dog...or a damned good cry (sadly I seem to be doing a lot of this last one at the moment).

Oh honey me too...

Wed, May 30 2012 01:33am EDT 7
Amy
Amy
3676 Posts

So sorry you are feeling blue Suzy, I hnpe it passes soon! I am a cryer as well. I usually turn to prayer and music. But in all honesty, I turn to Tim and ask him to hold me. That always works.!

Wed, May 30 2012 07:21pm EDT 8
Denise
Denise
13282 Posts
Aww.. Amy..the darling hubbys always do the trick don't they? I was thinking last night I am SO thankful my hubby has so much faith..he really does..
Wed, May 30 2012 10:41pm EDT 9
Maggi
Maggi
13064 Posts
Generally life does not get the best of me but I do remember sleepless nights caused by stress - usually work related. When possible I confront whatever is causing my stress and angst because if I don't, then I don't sleep. If I don't sleep, I don't function. But there are always things in life that are beyond our control as hard as we may try to stay in control. One of my big coping mechanisms is to crawl into myself. You might find me sitting in my chair with a blank look on my face, total silence. I am processing and I need this alone time to keep my head straight. I don't want to talk, I don't want to do anything other than sit and think and be alone. I love alone time. I also love music and will turn to that to pull myself out of a bad mood.
Thu, May 31 2012 01:04am EDT 10
Shona
Shona
11555 Posts
I find a good nappy always helps LOL! or a long hot bath..mmmmm or COMFORT FOOD!!!!!!! yummy
Fri, Jun 1 2012 09:39am EDT 11
Alda  Stevens
Alda Stevens
20763 Posts
Awwww Amy that is sooo sweet ....

Silence scares me Maggi .. I can not do silence ... silence means I am left with my own thoughts and I do not think that is a good thing ... I do not fall alseep ( when I do sleep) without music/ meditation tape/television ... I need noise 24/7

Long hot baths always work too ...
Fri, Jun 1 2012 09:16pm EDT 12
Denise
Denise
13282 Posts
If its really bad I would rather scream and cuss then be silent lol if I don't it just festers...and I will blow..which no one likes...lo.
Sat, Jun 2 2012 04:31am EDT 13
SusieJ
SusieJ
708 Posts
Thanks for the positive thoughts girls..still feeling a bit weepy but I haven's cried much this week.

I sometimes need the "alone" time like Maggi too - I think her description was perfect.
Sat, Jun 2 2012 12:18pm EDT 14
Tammy (simplyme)
Tammy (simplyme)
8884 Posts
Generally life does not get the best of me but I do remember sleepless nights caused by stress - usually work related. When possible I confront whatever is causing my stress and angst because if I don't, then I don't sleep. If I don't sleep, I don't function. But there are always things in life that are beyond our control as hard as we may try to stay in control. One of my big coping mechanisms is to crawl into myself. You might find me sitting in my chair with a blank look on my face, total silence. I am processing and I need this alone time to keep my head straight. I don't want to talk, I don't want to do anything other than sit and think and be alone. I love alone time. I also love music and will turn to that to pull myself out of a bad mood.

This has been me.. and well is me too! lol

I need quite time to focus on how to get things back on track.. I look at the situation or many of them which seems to be of late.. and try to figure out solutions to the problems..

I do pray too.. But I tend to carry my burdin for a long while before I just let it go.. Even if its something I know in my heart that I cannot fix or resolve.. I think it buggs me that I can't so I will still hold on to it..

Sat, Jun 2 2012 12:19pm EDT 15
Tammy (simplyme)
Tammy (simplyme)
8884 Posts
Thanks for the positive thoughts girls..still feeling a bit weepy but I haven's cried much this week.

I sometimes need the "alone" time like Maggi too - I think her description was perfect.

Big (((HUG)) sweetie!! Hope things get better for you..

Sat, Jun 2 2012 08:44pm EDT 16
Denise
Denise
13282 Posts
Tammy I agree..I think I want to fix it myself...when I need to let God take handle of it.
Sun, Jun 3 2012 03:30am EDT 17
Frank
Frank
6491 Posts
Big hugs to everyone, I know life can be hard. What I do besides scrapbooking is going outside to a park, getting a nice shady spot and letting the air breeze and hit my face, its relaxing, and relieves me of stress...makes me forget. There is nothing like nature to heal you.

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